Stay With Who Knows What They Have When They Have You

Stay with whoever knows the worst about you and still helps you to be better every day. Stay with whoever gives you reasons to smile every morning when you open your eyes, without fear, without worries or unhappiness.

In our life we ​​need friends, family and colleagues who respect and recognize us. In addition to loving ourselves and fostering our self-esteem every day, it is also very important that you have a good social network around you.

Stay with who knows what they have when they have you

It is not always easy to fit into this complex world. And even less to find people who complement our corners, our voids, who support our values ​​and who are those faithful companions throughout our life cycle.

Although it may not seem easy, in reality, there is always more than one person who is capable of giving you light in dark moments. People who know what they have when they have you, and we are not just talking about our emotional partners.

Who allows you to be better

People who refuse to change put walls on their own personal growth. Nobody is an example of absolute virtue and if there is something basic in the human being it is his ability to improve himself, to learn every day and integrate new knowledge.

• Let people come into your life who are capable of enriching you, of guiding you in your steps to promote your own personal growth.
• To be better every day we need to be aware of our mistakes, of our limitations. And that is something that we can only achieve if we are humble.
• Stay with someone who, far from judging, criticizing or sanctioning you, offers you an example with their behavior and serves as a guide to respond to your fears, to calm anxieties and walk more safely through life.

Stay with whoever considers you essential in their day to day

Surely you have heard on numerous occasions that “we must avoid attachments.” Or, even more so, avoid “needing” someone. Well, you have to see these aspects with some objectivity, because if there is something that is clear, it is that to be happy we need certain people.

• It is necessary to know how to differentiate the need to have with us those people whom we want than to want to “submit them to our will.” This second leads them to limit their freedom, their ability to choose and their personal growth.
• Whoever needs you must also know how to respect you. You are someone indispensable in the lives of many people. But this in turn requires knowing how to respect and offer a love that does not stifle, a love that enriches.
• Stay with the one who shows you every day that you are important to him and who, in turn, is capable of making you happy, without imposing, without controlling and without distrust.

Keep close to whoever gives you light on dark days

Surely you also have in your family or among your friends the classic person with the following characteristic. When you come up with a problem, instead of helping you, praise your mistakes and the failures that have caused you to fall into that difficulty.

• There are those who, instead of providing solutions, are capable of humiliating us even more. This is something we must avoid. When something goes wrong in your life, choose very well who you go to for support or simply to be listened to.
• There are people who care and respect. Personalities who know how to show openness and empathy.
• Stay with someone who, far from judging you, shows you closeness and is capable of putting himself in your shoes to understand you.
• Do not let those people escape who have the ability to transmit calm in dark days and shelter when you feel alone.

Stay with whoever offers you a firm commitment

There are people for whom that concept called stability, respect and commitment does not have much value. They are profiles that today show us an explosion of affection, affection and respect. And tomorrow, they only offer us their indifference.

This is something that we can experience not only as a couple, but also with one of our family members. They are people who show fickle emotions and are characterized by low emotional maturity.

• Nobody has the right to give you a thousand illusions today to take them away tomorrow as if we had no feelings. We could say without mistake that they are the most destructive and most toxic relationships. Hence the need to limit their treatment and to protect us.
• Stay with someone who shows good emotional maturity and is stable in terms of affections, feelings and words on a day-to-day basis.
• People need security. Hence, you should surround yourself with those who do not change their minds from today to tomorrow. That they offer you a firm commitment and an explicit pact where projects are fulfilled, where illusions are not lost.